Story No 1,
She suspected her husband was doing something nasty behind her back, and the culprit was his colleague, and the funny thing is three of them are working in the same office, the wife(my friend), the husband and the suspect. Her woe is, she is seeing the both of them day in and day out, the rumour is rife that other colleagues have seen them at night together,(both of them are in the sales), my friend is in the account.
She asked me, what would i do if i were to be in her shoes? to confront him/to confront her or let the rumour die a nature death and live on as if nothing has happened and pray that the rumour remains just rumour.
Story No 2,
He is a nice man, married to a nice wife, two children. His woe is, the wife keeps asking him to do more for her family in many things, for an example, he even has to support his wife's brother who is in his 30s and not working, of which he feels that it is not fair at all for him to do that but his wife claims that he is part of her family, her family's problems are his too.
He asked me, what would i do if i were him? to continue supporting his wife's brother financially which he can afford, but feeling angry doing it or stop supporting him thus courting the wrath from his wife.
Story No 3,
She lamented that her husband is so obstinate that he refuses her to come out to work at night to supplement the household income, when currently his husband is doing bad in his business and most of the times, she has to ask for financial help from her siblings. Together,they have four children, and it is tough going for them, and she does not have any skills to qualify for a decent 9 to 5 jobs, she admitted. His debt is mounting now, and she really wanted to help.
She wanted to come out to do a part time as a beer promoter of which she could get about 40 to 50 a night not counting tipping and her woe is, her husband is ashamed of her choice of part time job, which she reasoned because it might affect his reputation.
She asked me what would i do,knowing of her current dilemma and the situation is not getting better anytime soon? And working as a beer promoter is a decent job with nice income to supplement the household.
Q)My woe is tell me what advice could i dispense to these 3 friends of mine?
P/S : It's so funny, how we dont talk anymore....................