My boys are now 12 (Jovial) and 8 (Marvell) years old respectively, i really enjoy the wonderful bond that i share with my two boys, but there is just one thing though that i regret not doing as far as they are concerned. I was not there to witness "The Moment" when there were taken into my world because my wife underwent the Caesarian.
I was online MSNing with a lady friend cum customer, and as usual for married people, one subject that will never elude us is the subject of family, children and all. As were MSNing away, we came to the subject of pregnancy, she has one boy and another one is on the way.
Dont know why, out of the sudden i asked her if she was enjoying her pregnancy thus far, and she said yes and no,that really puzzled me. So casually i continue asking why was it so, she hesitated for a while and replied...............................
During her first pregnancy, never once, her husband would accompany her to see the doctor, she lamented. She said,when she was there waiting for the doctor, she felt so lonely and jealous seeing other husbands accompanying their wives.
Now that she is pregnant again, she has just one hope that this time around, the husband would accompany her, even just once or twice to see doctor. But then again, she is not that hopeful that he would do it, she said her husband is "one kind" one..........
I did not pursue further, i just wished her all the best. Recalling my MSNing with my friend, i was thinking to myself, it really does not take much for a lady(i mean our wives)to be happy,just some little thing i mean really little that we can do, for instance being there when they need us the most, a short and brief SMS of " i love you" a simple question like " are you tired today? or may be something like this " can hold your hand?"
P/S : LVs are cool, but will not be as cool as saying "I Love You"