This year's celebration of Chinese New Year really took me by big surprise., for i was saddened and heartbroken by one particular incident that took place during the first two days of the new year that really got me very mad at the same time.
I always hold steadfastly to the belief that in the event such as Chinese New Year, we should learn to forgive and forget one another, no matter how big the misunderstanding can be and how bad the feud was, we should learn to let it go, especially if it involves family members.
I guess my regular visitors to my blog would know that i have not been on speaking term with one of my sisters for about two months since the fiasco of her marriage, and she got fumed over my use of moniker or decription upon her supposedly boyfriend,when i denoted him as "mother fucking adulterer" and i wish not change that even as now, indeed he is one "mother fucking adulterer" and she got even madder when i posted in on my blog, which she claimed that i had humiliated her via my blog.
I SMSed her on the second day of the CNY, telling her that my mom was in way sad for she was not that for the reunion dinner, i just could not imagine the SMS in return that i got from her was that she made me the reason for her absence for the dinner, and subtly implied how much she hated me and my wife, even one of my children is not spared from her wrath.
In one of her SMSes, she demanded that i should apologize to her for all my "wrongdoings" in the presence of all my family members, of which i told her not a problem, i would apologize to her not for my wrongdoings but for the anger i caused her for not supporting her in the way which i strongly believe is wrong. I said that i would settle it once and for all, and i demanded the presence of her supposedly boyfriend, for he is the cause of all the strain and tensions between me,she and my mother.
I guess this is the best i can do, and from now on, i know what to do as far as this is sister of mine is concerned.
P/S: It really doesnt matter now, she is not my concern anymore.............