Do you believe in these cliches "you reap what you sow" "what goes around comes around" or may be this "do unto others what you want others do unto you". I am not that religious kind of person, but i strongly believe that's a law of universal. famously known as law of attraction.
My own uncle left his wife many years ago for a girl who is 15 years younger than he is. After his departure, his legitimate wife had to slog to keep the family afloat wihtout the support coming from my uncle.
Fast forward to today, his once young wife has left him for another guy after so many years working illegally in England, now my poor uncle who can no longer work is suffering the same tortures, torments, helplessness and lonliness his legitimate once suffered, and now he is reaping the fruits that he once sowed.
My uncle's children from the first marriage, depise the biological so much that they would not allow him any chance of keeping in touch with them for they know when they were small how their mother was treated, they saw her tears and now as cruel as it may seem, they are standing up for their mother, and it is pay back time for my uncle.
I always think, if i were to cheat on my wife and inflicting her with all the sorrows and pains, would i like the same kind of treatments if my wife were to cheat on me? The answer is simple, i love her so much that i would not let her go through this torment, and wouldnt want the same to happen to me.
P/S : Cheat and be cheated