I used to make to tell this joke to my friends, "My wife tends to complain that why now when we cross the road,i dont hold her hand to get over to the other side like before, then i responded you said it well, it was then but this is now" Well, this is of course just a joke.
Why cant the Then stays the same with the Now and what comes in between the Then and the Now that makes a relationship loses the sparks ?Take for an example 10 or 15 years ago, you were so madly in love, and with that love you decided to walk down the aisles, but 10 or 15 years or even shorter the relationship loses the steam and everything else seems so different. Why is it so, i really wonder.
Did you know that the statistic shows that, 4 out of 10 marriages will end up in divorce, and the most common ground for divorces is irrconsilable differences. Funny la, i think we didnt see the differences in the Then and we see them in the Now and we cant take it anymore so we call it quit.
I dont want to expound on this issues, i want to hear from you, i want you to share your takes with me on this.
When i told my friend over the cuppa last night that i would always always love my wife untill my dying days, he intercepted and said that i should not conclude so early that my love for her will not waver. Seriously i cant comprehend his reason.
P/S... When i say i love you, i really do.