If there is one thing my father said that has strong bearing and influence in my life is this."Blood is thicker than water" even untill today it is the same that i instill in my two boys that cliche.
But things dont play out as well as i wanted it to be in my own life, serioulsy i dont know why, i have played my part as a brother to my siblings but most of time it is not reciprocal. If there is one regret that i harbour, this should be it.
Well i have not been on talking term with my eldest sister,lest keep in touch for about 2 months now,it all started because i was not in agreement with her stand as far as her marriage fiasco is concerned, i couldnt sync with her action nor could i accept her reasons. Well,i guess it doenst really matter now, we are all adults and we should be held 100 % responsible from our own actions.
I dont want to talk about her divorce,what grinds me to sadness is i have indeed lost a sister the moment my wife showed me the sms on her mobile from my eldest sister that contained innuendos in the form of instigating or to cause a strain in my relationship with my wife,(asking my wife not to trust me of that sort) once i read the sms,i knew i had to distant myself from her in order to protect my family, not that i hava anything to hide from my wife but i just didnt want my wife to be entangled in our problems.
If you ask me, do i love my eldest sister, without hesitation i can safely say i do, infact i love all of my siblings but due to certain circumstances, i lost a sister.
Among all my siblings, my eldest sister is the one that i love the most, and i sincerely hope she has found the right one to spend the rest of her life with, and that someone will go through thick and thin with her.
May be she will read my blog, may be she will not but today being the 18th of December, i want to wish her "Happy Birthday " to my dearest sister , may your days ahead be filled with joy and love, and sincerely i want to say "i love you" you might not want to rekindle, but i just want you to know, i really do.....i hope i will find you once again.
Wish my father was alive today so that he could once again whip us with that fact "Blood is thicker than water"
P/S. All the Best to you