She is da best........................

I went through hell of nightmarish nights the last two nights (okay not because of my family was not around) it was because of some"family issues" that was too hard for me to swallow and even talking to one or two "close" members would not be of help,I just lost sleep and that time I really wish someone could understand me as a son and as a brother but sadly none.

You know I was so happy when I poured out my feelings to my lovely wife about my sadness and I remember those words that she said that really took away my sadness and malaise,she said,' Dear,it must be very painful for you to go through this" I was kind overwhelmed by those words,non judgemental,non biased and non taking side just because I am her husband.

I guess my lovely wife knows me so well until she can see those anguish in me,even if I don't show it and gently she would talk it over with me, telling me that I could be wrong in handling some family issues even my intentions were good.

Seriously, women like my lovely wife do have certain kind of "quality" that could help the husband to abate the "hardest" the most painful experience when he faces one or many... and I really thank God for her....................................

P/S : She is the sweetness in my utter weakness

You're such a babe

Thank God for making such a good woman like you my wife...............Happy Birthday dear,the 27th of Sept.................May God bless you with good health and most importantly of all,Action Speaks Louder than Words therefore each day I will be a better husband for you.
P/S : I Love You

This one is for you dear.............................

She looked extremely tired,not long after dinner,she was retiring early to bed, on the bed side,I told her to call in sick the next day cos she really looked worn out,sore throat or just drained........then she said.

" I cannot,I have tonnes of emails to reply,I have meeting to attend tomorrow" after hearing this, I turned off the bed room light,saying good night to her.

Early this morning about 5.59 am, when the alarm buzzed, I told my lovely wife to continue her sleep,assuring her that I would "kau tim" or handle the boys to prepare them for school. While I was preparing milk for my boy,I saw her already up as well,making sure that boys school stuffs are intact...........I guess a mother will always be a mother.

Now this is no joke,if a woman is stressed out in the office,inundated with barrage of emails,telephone calls,meetings,dead lines,complaints,sales calls and more of this and that,from 9 to 5,it is really physically demanding and mental weary,what more if the subordinates suck and the superiors are unreasonable,it would add further malaise to the already stressful 9 to 5.

You know,sometimes I really hate it,when I see her vegetating in front of her notebook,answering the non-stop emails,one answered,two to come........

Thank God for my wife has got good superiors and cooperative down the lines but I really hope she will learn to de'stress when time warrants and may the Good Lord bless her with good health

So if you are a boss and if you have those working moms working under you,please give them some avenues to "chill and hang lose",please do not let them lose their health,sanity and happiness.

Problems will always always be there but let them find the joy of solving them.....

P/S : I Love You.....my dear