Dont get me wrong by looking at the title of this post, personally i do not condone "unprotected sex" and i strongly propagate "responsible sex" but then again i really hate condoms and duly for a reason, my only weaponary for defense when ......................
You see i do have friends who frequent brothels for paid sex,(ok they are still my friends),they do that for reasons best known to them, there had been many occasions when i was enticed or even coaxed to go along with them, but thank god my conscience has always been intact..
I had been labelled as "not man enough", "chicken" ,"queen control" or even " are you bi?",none of my reasons to my friends can satisfy them untill i concocted my excuse it has since stop them from bugging me....
Since i told my friends about me not fancy using condom whilst having IT, and how i analogized to that of rubbing my delicate skin against the wall, how pleasure turned to torture, they really accepted my reasons...........now they really know i hate condoms, and how i dare not wager my safety in sex for a quikie in one or two or three.
This post is actually inspired by another blogger friend who talked about AIDS as the mass murderer.
You know untill i now,i can still hear people talking about how contracting AIDS is akin to striking a lottery, how sad it really sounds, doesn't it?
I believe sex is the divine gift from god, how god wanted two to get intertwined in a union in surrendering oneself wholeheartedly to the other, not for lust, but for love.
P/S : We Must be Naugty in our own bed, but we must not be naughty in others' bed(s)
P/S : We Must be Naugty in our own bed, but we must not be naughty in others' bed(s)
ReplyDeleteWAHAHAH.. i like this....
wah... first
really first wor.. wahahahaha....
ReplyDeleteyeah...not worth for a short period of pleasure which ends up a lifetime of misery, including the family.
ReplyDelete*the husband contracted aids, wife got to know but doc said to wait 3years then only can confirm on wife.. wife meanwhile sleeps separately from hubby, disgusted and after 3 agonizing years, she is declared safe but husband still on treatment. Now living separate lives just bec of a quickie..*
ReplyDeletestory ends here....
Sometimes a quickie will lead to laot of things... we should try to avoid it regardless single, married or just not into commitment.
ReplyDeleteAIDS is a murderer indeed, would we rather risk our lives for such things?
Not just a quickie might get us into a live long illness... even if lucky, what about the trauma of losing the family when the family finds out that the husband / children went for a sex service? I don't know... but somehow to me it feels like it is saying the wife isn't good enough in bed.
hahaahahaha....good one ! Do you behaved at home and misbehaved outside ? Thanks for following me
ReplyDeleteI think it's good that you misbehave at home and behave outside, haha. I dont understand why men would go to hookers, they are the ones who aren't real men.
ReplyDeleteYou buy lottery, you strike, you're elated because you get money to spend.
ReplyDeleteYou get AIDS, you get nothing but a slow, painful death... not to mention social discrimination if they know you've that disease regardless if it's your fault or not since AIDS could be transmitted via other non-sexual means.
Naughty not only in bed, but in other places too :)
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ReplyDeleteThanks for being so honest :) and also so explicit! :P lolz
ReplyDeleteKudos! You are certainly one in a million, coz most men (or perhaps I just simply hv many lousy married friends) are easily coaxed into "joining the group" with the pretext being a bonding session at those spas.
+Ant+
I like your last statement-naughty in our own beds and not in other ppl's bed!
ReplyDeleteGlad that you are a real "man" saying no to sex with other than the wife!
this is awesome! condom is good, but sometimes it gives bullshit thing, like what have said that you have your delicate skin, sensuality turn into pain. but i like your post.. hehehehe
ReplyDeleteEugene, I think you've just come out with THE phrase of the Year "We must be naughty in our own bed, but we must not be naughty in others' bed(s)"
ReplyDeleteSo so true... :D
but somehow..need protection..otherwise plenty of babies lo..
ReplyDeleteSeems like you've coin a new Phrase. :)
ReplyDeleteI don't like condom either. :p And I don't need it bro. LOL :D
ReplyDeleteAnyway I have just cared for you today bro. :)
ReplyDeleteYour wife is so BLESSED to have a husband like you!
ReplyDeleteWhen I first read the title, I was like .."OMG, HE IS GOING TO MAKE HIS WIFE ANGRY!!!" LOL.
Cheers!
Shakira
safe sex. nothing can beat that..as for being faithful to your partners.....hmmmm......i have a story will blog soon hehhehe
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ReplyDeletei like yr last line.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad, Eugene. Really glad that someone else agree with me that AIDS is a mass murderer and we should love ourselves and the people around us. =D U go, bro! Way to go! When were are married, we're not only responsible for our own safety, but the safety of our spouse and children. It is not hard to do when we love them from the bottom of our hearts and will do just about anything to keep them safe.
ReplyDeleteHello Eugene,
ReplyDeleteyour 'p/s:' cracks me up. you've probably heard this many times but still i'd like you to know ( again ) that this is a wonderful blog you're keeping and you're real game to write on real life and real issues with such brutal honesty and abandonement, something not many have the guts to reveal.
thank you and keep it up.