I was having dinner with my wife and a friend last night, and as were chit-chatting away, suddenly i heard some kind of commotion which attracted my attention to where the noise came from, not far from when we were sitting, i saw a boy who was waylaid and being bashed up by two adults and the boy did not retaliate at all. The boss of the coffeeshop intercepted because the boy that was bashed was her waiter.
After about 15 minutes or so, the scene died down and i was curious enough so i asked the lady boss what exactly happened, she told me the boy was peeping at a girl while she was in the toilet, and someone caught him redhanded that ensued in the fight by the so called vigilantes.
I saw the boy was so helpless after the incident, he was only fifteen i was told and after the incident he looked so lost and was kind of hiding at the corner not untill the lady boss shouted at him to continue working.........
I walked up to the boy, gave him the pat on the shoulder and i just said this to him in Madarin "Please do it again boy, i knew you knew it was wrong but please dont do it again next time,ya?
When i went back, i called out my eldest son who is 12 years old and i shared the incident with him about the fifteen years old boy peeping, i shared with him in my opinion why the boy did what he did and i was reminding my boy to always remember to talk to me,whenever he feels confused about the subject of sex and the human body.
Q)As parent how do we prevent our children being a peeping Tom at fifteen,hahahah?
P/S : As human, we all err but if the young ones do it, please help them to get over it...
Must educate our child abt sex education when times come.
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ehh i think u type something wrong " Please do it again boy, i knew you knew it was wrong.... " i was shocked at first hahaha ... but i think u miss out something hehe and yea you're really a good father =) ...
ReplyDeletemaybe the parent should bare it all? JHAAHAHAHAHHAA.....but then if my parent had bared it all to me when i was 15, i swear i would have packed,left home and checked into the nearest orphange and be ready to be adopted :)
ReplyDeleteage 15... sexual drive being the most active now.
ReplyDeleteWhat I think, it is always best to tell them what is wrong and what is right. Teaching our teen kids about sex and the opposite gender is always the right move to prevent such things from happening.
Make sure to be open with them, and let them treat you as a friend as well as a parent so when they got any problem, they will approach you :).
Eugene... like ivan, i noticed the typo mistake... better amend it otherwise the boy will do it again.. :)
ReplyDeletethis curiosity might "kill" him if he gets beaten up by other rougher guys!
I guess if children are brought up with good religious and moral values, they would not do something like that...or at least, that is our hope! Parents are often too busy for their kids and leave them to their own devices. I'm glad you're not like that...and what lovely sons you have - a true reflection of the good job you've been doing!
ReplyDeleteTeach and educate them to appreciate every human being..such; how beautiful God creation making the girl looks so nice.. :)
ReplyDeleteSaw a newspaper article recently about a survey targeting youngsters to know how much they know about sex organs. Surprisingly most between age 20-24 still dont know where babies come from =.='''
ReplyDeleteHi, first ever comment in your blog... :)
ReplyDelete15 is the age when a boy reach his puberty... at this level, his hormone secreted a lot!!! And, became more adult than an adult!!
So, please guide your child with proper sex education, or otherwise he will act wrongly...
Keep in touch pal, I guest you're a good father...
must talk to them abt it. dont make it a taboo subject. the more secret something is, the more curious they would be. :-)and make sure they can talk to u freely or else they go out finding the answers themselves.
ReplyDeletepeeping at that young age do happen ..so always make sure that our kids don't do that..
ReplyDeleteyeah, must educate our children, also, children nowdays learn about everything very fast, haihh
ReplyDeleteI guess now the generation is a bit different from last time. Last time my perents never teach us and educate us much about sex education because of (Chinese traditional thinking). Haiz.. now the kids are more smarter than us. They are just curious and dare to do things and very easy to get infected by movies, friends etc. Umm.. if that one is my son i sure very sad.... Just hope that the boy's parents can faster help him out of peeping~ otherwise something serious might be happened....
ReplyDelete"Please do it again" ??
ReplyDeletei think there's a mistake! lol..
anyway, pity the boy.. but he should have learned his lesson.. =)
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hahahah you have corrected the mistake....you know Freud once said "slip of tongue" is actually a manifestation of how you really feel subconciously....so, i wonder.....:)
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