He hated my comment

You see, men love to gossip as much as women,sometimes even more,there is no denying it, we really think we know it all, we really regard ourselves more learned than our female counterparts, that's why sometimes we are not willing to lend our ears for a little longer to hear our spouse out, anyway i am not talking about this today, but gossip in another kind.

Believe it or not, i do spend a good part of my breadfast time talking nonsense and whatever not,usually with a few friends. What happened that morning sparked certain kind of debate among few of my breadfast buddies.

Looking across the table, there was this sloppy and unkempt looking woman in her mid 30s(i guess), kind of out of shape body of which will not entice you to look at her twice,sitting down having breadfast with her child,one friend began to talk softly to the rest of us with this statement, " Ai yoh, i cannot imagine myself making love with this lady, she cant even turn me on" i tend to agree, but i did not want to spur my friend further in such a topic, then softly again, i told him forget about the issue, she might overhear it and that would not be nice.

After the lady has left, i took a swipe at my friend who made that unfriendly statement and jokingly i told him to look at himself too, look at his dressing, look at his bulging tummy and looking at his unkempt hair and said this to him that made him mad at me "if i were a woman, i would not want to sleep with you too" with his facial expression getting a little unkind and voice raised and he shot back at me," I where got same, i slog so hard,providing my family, i where got time to look after myself "

Defending myself, i retaliated," just how do you think that lady that you commented got time to make herself look good, she might be slogging harder than you do, day in and day out 24/7, and who knows when she asks for a little extra from her husband to go for facial and spa treatment, the husband might just tell her, no needlah, you stay at home one, nobody will look at you one."

Sensing that my friend was not at all pleased with my comment, i shrugged and telling the guys, let change topic, lets talk about politic and economy instead.

I sincerely believe no one married woman wants to look bad, she too wants to cut a Jessica Alba body, Farrah Fawcett hair and be pampared with luxuries such as LV, Hermes, Coach, Prada and whatever lah, but sometimes situation really does not permit her to do so, and she gives in and trade her "rights" for the sake of the family.

P/S : She too can be sexy, if you let her be.