Thursday, February 09, 2012

Black faced lady...........

He said he was sick and tired of his wife for she always shows her "black face" and he lamented that marriage was no fun anymore,then I said to him, it was very easy a remedy to bring back the shine and glory to his wife,he then asked how.

I said,"Ask her to quit her job, you give her RM5000 or more a month, a overseas holiday once or more a year, give her a nice car,let her chill with her friends at Coffee Beans or Starbuck for breakfast or tea breaks" He then said I was talking "cock"

I didn't mean to be rude but many of times men have failed to understand that married women shoulder more responsibilities than men,when it comes to "dual income" family, I may be talking "cock" , I know it cos my lovely wife is also a working mom.......Ditto....
(Sometimes she really feels that she could be a Super Woman)

P/S : She wears more hats than I do................

18 comments:

  1. Honestly, how nice that we, the working mother have Eugene's recognition and acknowledgement. So, I hope people don't critic us look haggard, don't compare us with those Siu Lai Lai's appearance, and please give us more benefit of doubts if we look aged more than we should.

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  2. Oh, sometimes my man meet a black faced lady at home, too. Normal la....

    A monthly RM5k for being full time housewife, with annual oversea family holidays would definitely brighten up my day (and face)! Expect less cloudy days then, hihihi!

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  3. Yes! That god you understand how we feel, Eugene. I tried to be a superwoman but some days, I grew exhausted and wishing my hubby would carry some works for me. Thank you for understanding us.

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  4. 'Ask her to quit her job, you give her RM5000 or more a month, a overseas holiday once or more a year, give her a nice car,let her chill with her friends at Coffee Beans or Starbuck for breakfast or tea breaks'.

    If all women get this from the husband, then sure no more black face lo! ;)

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  5. hak hau hak meen... heard of this many times from men especially.. :p

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  6. well have to give n take..
    then husband has to be more understandable n support the wife as well...

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  7. ..and then somemore hor, if one is a member of COW (Club of Obedient Wives), one has to service the husband like a wh*re. Oops!

    The world sure needs a lot more (understanding) men like you, Eugene.

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  8. u r indeed bold to talk. where got men want to put their faces down like you to talk sincerely. u r 1 among the many thousands!
    Good year ahead for you and your generations to come.
    Sure yr two sons will be the same like you u.standing ladies during their life time.
    Txs God for giving us the recognition and acknowledgement as Sheoh Yan said.
    God bless.

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  9. u r indeed bold to talk. where got men want to put their faces down like you to talk sincerely. u r 1 among the many thousands!
    Good year ahead for you and your generations to come.
    Sure yr two sons will be the same like you u.standing ladies during their life time.
    Txs God for giving us the recognition and acknowledgement as Sheoh Yan said.
    God bless.

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  10. why that person say that you talk cock -.-!

    Anyways what u mention above was correct unless he cant afford 5k or lesser . . . or unless he already bao another lady at another side, who knows?

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  11. I am sure you are not only an understanding husband, but an understanding boss too!

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  12. I really wish to be a husband that can provide my wife with all that you had mentioned... haha maybe will not be able to achieve exactly the same but I won't stop trying to make my wife one of the most happiest girl in the world :D

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  13. Thank you for understanding us as WOMEN. You are one in many millions that have understood women.

    You wife are really blessed to have you as her husband.

    Ps.Geez...I wish that my future husband will understand like u do.

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  14. livingeagle.blogspot.comFebruary 11, 2012 at 8:11 PM

    From all your blogs that I have read, I can safely conclude that you are a very understanding person. God bless.

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  15. Ohhh how i wish... Breakfast at my fav kopitiam would be good enough :)

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  16. Frankly speaking, I really salute you, Eugene. I'm sure you are the type of man that most women are looking for. Thank God for giving me the chance to get to know you. In fact, the statement you made are more to material stuffs which I would say is secondary. I would rather hope for him to understand & to share out the amount of stuffs that shouldered by me such as work, sending/picking the kids for school/tuition, house chores, my mum & his parents' routine check up, marketing,etc.... If he could automatically offer to help out some of the above without me asking for it, I am contented. God bless :o)

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  17. I guess many women are the same, if the partner treat her good and appreciate what she do for the family, she definitely will sacrifice more than that. Sometime women can be very "simple".

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