I was chilling out with my lovely wife on last Saturday,just two of us,I just love talking to her,now I've learned to listen more rather than talking more, so we were on the subject of strengthening relationship and marriage.
Admittedly,I told her than I was not really that nice nice husband many years ago,in fact I was kind of chauvinistic to certain extent and I apologized to her of what I was then,she agreed me with that I was kind of chauvinistic that I said I was.
Gingerly she said she wanted to tell me one thing and hoping that I would not get mad with her and what she was about to say was a testament that I was indeed a chauvinistic back then, I said girl,please go ahead.
She said," You know many years ago,when I was with my ex company and when I called you to help me when my car could not get started you just blushed me off by telling me to seek help from my colleagues instead and it was a hurtful remark indeed" and this incident was like 12 years ago.
Again I apologized to her and gladly she said it was okay cos she was only trying to share things with me,that's all.
You see,never hurt a woman,no matter how frivolous we think it might be,they can remember for a long time.
P/S : Treat her like a lady