Tuesday, May 25, 2010

This is terror lah................

I heard siren wailing from a distant as i was walking to pick my Jovial up from school last friday afternoon, as the siren grew louder only then i realized that the ambulance was heading to my son school, i thought something terrible must have happened.

I weaved through the crowd to see what really was happening, then i saw one student had his whole forehead bandaged, his school uniform was badly tainted with blood and was rushed to the hospital.

What happened to this boy student was no accident but an attack aimed at him by three outsiders and the story goes...................................

Yesterday, i went to see the assistant headmaster to find out what happened to the boy on that fateful day and i was told of this. This form 4 boy used to cheekily or mischievouly teased his fellow girl classmate with this question, " what color of the bra you wear today ,ha? " i was told sometimes the girl would respond, so this has been going on for a while.

Probably one day, the girl could not contain the sex insinuated question or innuendo anymore and she told this to her boyfriend and the hot blooded boy friend with his cahoots waited for the boy last friday and as soon as he was coming from the school, the boyfriend and gang rushed to the boy and assaulted him with a steel spanner wrench a few times untill they saw the blood coming out,only then they left.

The verdit..... the girl was expelled and her boyfriend would be charged and the poor boy was served with more than 10 stitches on his forehead.

On a hindsight... this incident could have killed someone, and could have incriminated another one with murder charge and could have ruined another girl's life and the sad thing is all of them are below the age of 18.

As a parent, sometimes i am confused at why can all this be happening and why are we still let this happen?

P/S : Who's to blame when our young waver..............God give us the wisdom

26 comments:

  1. As parents the best you can do is to implant some common sense and thought into their brains so that they would learn to think even before taking any action.

    Haiz stuff like this happened a lot during school days. Tidak pandai jaga mulut, haha. Its always a fight over a girl, imagine the girl's power :D

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  2. so shocking nowadays the kids.. our time one, got cases like this? the one i could remember very well was one time our discipline teacher gathered all the students in the hall and in tears, she told us that one student gave birth in the toilet and told us not to speculate..

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  3. what happen in school is beyond our control. it will be difficult to monitor each and everyone in school. In my school, although measures are taken to ensure the safety of our school children, there are still fights.

    Nevertheless, parents really need to play their role to instill religious and moral values to their children at home.

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  4. My children are still very young, but I have started to worry of how/what to communicate or educate them when they reach their teenage.

    Too strict also cannot, too loose also not right. It is so tough to be a parent nowadays.

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  5. ohmy, really like my secondary school time. i ever witnessed few outsiders whacked our school head of prefects but lucky managed to catch all those gangster. sigh.

    this kind of thing always happened in secondary school one.

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  6. Firstly, I have no sympathy for that boy. He could've been killed, so he was lucky to escape with stitches. He deserved it (not that i'm bad-hearted).

    Kids nowadays have no respect at all for anyone, especially for females.

    Why does it happen? Peer influence, lack of parental control, education system.

    Sigh, it's just gonna get worse, and we all have to be prepared for it.

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  7. wow... terror la... those days during my school time also got this kind of case.. but that not coz of girl, that coz of 'power'... we just have to jaga our anak in proper to avoid having all this kind of stuff again..

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  8. oh dear.. when the school was once a safe place.. it never is anymore.. :(

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  9. kids nowadays are so hard to control. Sigh!

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  10. Really scary. In today's Star, there was also a write-up about gangsters and kids demanding for protection money in secondary school.

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  11. Parents guidance are important but some parents can be assholes and brought up their kid in a bad way. I think it's still best to leave it to the education system to instill the good values.

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  12. how was the school respond about this? i think its better to well inform all the students what was happening and what will going to be happened to the girl and her boyfriend. so that they know they have to "pay" to be a "tai ko".

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  13. Aiyor...so bad the discipline there these days. Gangsterism... I read front page in The Star - schools in Rawang or where - gangsters all over posing a threat to the students.

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  14. school gangsterism is not something new already lah...
    since i was still in school that time, there is already such things.

    that kid also 1 kind 1, if want to joke, he should joke about something else. even if that girl dun ask ppl to wallop him also, if she report police, he will kena also..

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  15. Nowadays teenagers are hard to control. Read today newspaper regarding school bullies asking for protection money. Even worst that a Form 2 girl been raped by her schoolmates at their school premises. Gosh what a world now.

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  16. the boy must have been asking for it but violence feed violence :(

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  17. Well, i think most teenagers like them like to play around for nothing, without thinking about the consequences. perhaps this incident would taught them to grow up and think more maturely.

    have a nice day!

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  18. Whose fault? Parents' fault of course. Because lack of guidance. :/ Nowadays a lot of parents only know how to lavish their children with money and luxuries.

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  19. sui hum sup lor.. why the heck he go kacau the girl with the questions leh... now kids all very ganas edi. Noe very simple, sikit sikit not like can hire ppl to whack. Dangerous world we live in

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  20. kids who are not well brought up these days are SCARY! did u read the story on the gangsters in rawang school???

    really gives me the shivers. It boils down to parenting and guidance from guardians.

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  21. The world can't get any weirder, that's for sure. Well, when we let loose our children into school and whatnot, there's nothing much we can do but say our prayers. It's a rotten society out there. Unless the authorities do something to change this, nothing will change. But for what it's worth, we can't possibly lock our children in the tower like Rapunzel.

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  22. many years back,there was no internet or rampant lewd vcd so such cases like tunggang2 inside classroom,gangsterism or sexual harrasment are quite rare.may be it's becoz of our new-age stuffs like internet to be blamed?

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  23. Really not easy to control kids nowadays. Just don't know where went wrong or our society is sick...So many rape cases in school as read from the newspaper recently. Another one from today news that a few boys raped a schoolmate many times in the school and even forced ice cube into the girl's private part...and the school not knowing anything about this or just pretend not knowing anything on this? Things are getting out of control. Who should we blame? School? Parent? or the student itself? I really have no idea now.

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  24. it's just the sign of the times...

    parents may not have spent enough time with the kids because they both work, or they couldn't care less, the kids are influenced by their peers or via internet, & the schools have deteriorated in terms of discipline over the years.

    of course, no one has admitted to the truth that our education system sucks!

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