I've always liked this cliche,"thou shall not play with fire, or else you'll get burnt," and i like to add another line to that cliche," Thou shall not play with fire, or else you'll get burnt,no matter how fire prove you are," So the story goes....................
My close friend confided in me that he long ago began a secret relationship with his colleague. Both of them are married, and both of them are in sales line and both of them will have to travel to overseas periodically.
He told me, he has always regarded this lady as a close friend of whom she can confide in him, whenever she needs someone to talk to, and he always potrays himself as a brother figure to her.
And she began to open up to my friend as far as her problems were concerned, she began to confide in him that her marriage was on the verge of breaking down, for some reasons of which my friend decline to divulge.
Gradually and eventually her solace she found in my friend has begun as a secret sanctuary for the both of them and now my friend is in a dilemma.
He said he never anticipated that this could be happening, he said all that he wanted to do was to share her problems, lend her a ear or two, and he said all started out as emotion haven for her has turned out to involve pyhsical attraction.
When he had finsihed sharing with me, i just kept numb for i know we are all human, i didn't say anything to my friend and just told him to do the right thing.
Q)What should he do? i really wonder
P/S : It is always easier to say NO, in the beginning but we always choose to say Yes to that No