Thursday, December 24, 2009

My Eldest sister, Tipsiness and Kara-ok.......

My eldest sister is the one among my three sibling that i love the most but our relationship turned very bitter somewhere last year, when there were things that she did as far as her divorce was concerned really infuriated me, we were like enemy back then.

Along the line, we were patching things up a little here and there but most of the time it was only on a superficial level untill last night............i changed in my perspective towards her.

Yesterday,i called her up just to check how she was because i heard she was sick over the weekend then she invited me and my lovely wife for a happy hour binging with her new found love.

So there we were in a kara-ok, four of us drinking and talking about family issues a little here and there, i was there observing my sister and her boyfriend and i was happy to see that they were like newly in love couple, but there was another that i sensed from my eldest sister was that she really did love me as a brother.

After a few rounds of drinks, we started singing and as we were singing away, my sister came towards me and put her hand on my shoulder, i was weeping a little because at that moment i felt that indeed we could each give love after all we were brother and sister.

You know sometimes life is funny, why do we always have the biggest problem with someone we love the most ? My other siblings have no problem, simply because they dont care as much or as far as siblings are concerned.

Last night i was tipsy but i was happy knowing that i could still be around with my eldest sister to share some joy with her, and sometimes some tears too.

P/S : She ain't heavy, she my sister...................

23 comments:

  1. Glad that things are werking well with you n your sis eugene. Have a very merry christmas :D

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  2. i am wondering how come i am not ur google connect follower...anyway, just follow u ...

    wah...hope ur sis enjoy karaok!

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  3. blood is thicker than water. just happy you mended that patch.

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  4. blood is thicker than water.. as andy gibb sang..
    siblings.. i think i told u long ago.. will have no kat yeh sau.. if one were to humble himself/herself, all will be well.. one of my sibling also had a problem with the rest of us recently.. but few days ago, we were back to square one again.. :)

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  5. Glad everything is working the way it should be for you and ur sis :))

    Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and your family, Eugene!!

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  6. I totally agree with:

    "Orang yang kite sayang itu lah yang paling susah untuk disayangi...."

    `Qoute from the movie CINTA

    (Have a merry Christmast!!!)

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  7. ofcoz need sayang loh..
    hehehe.. siblings = blood connected one leh.. XD
    keep that..

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  8. glad to hear that things are patching up :)

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  9. new boyfriend, wow so good. u too a good brother to her.Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to u n ur family..

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  10. blood is thicker than water.

    glad to know things went well with you and your sister.

    Merry Christmas! ^^

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  11. glad things are getting better between you and your sister. Anyway, my friends and I are planning a trip to Penang in May next year. Just want to know if you know any budget car rentals in Penang as we're still students so our budget is quite tight. Let me know by leaving a message on my blog. Thanks. Merry Christmas and happy 2010.

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  12. That's the best christmas gift! Merry Christmas & a happy new year to u and family.

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  13. tentatively 12-14 May 2010. 4 people going. So a small car would be fine. Let me know the price and contact of the car rental. Emailing me would be better at weiqipang [at] hotmail [dot] com. Thanks again for your help.

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  14. It's a good thing that you patched up wioth your sis, Eugene. Blood is thicker than water, after all. I just hope you can go bing less... it's not so good for your liver wan, you know? Drink in moderation, ok bro?

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  15. Very happy for you Eugene :) Hope you both will continue to be close for the coming new year.

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  16. no matter what, it's still " ka kee lang lo.."

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  17. good to know that everything went out as the season approaches...all the best in 2010 :)

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  18. good, christmas mood brings people together. hehe! merry xmassy!

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  19. I am very happy for you and your sister.

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  20. Glad things finally patched up btw u n ur sis.

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