Dont get me wrong by looking at the title of this post, personally i do not condone "unprotected sex" and i strongly propagate "responsible sex" but then again i really hate condoms and duly for a reason, my only weaponary for defense when ......................
You see i do have friends who frequent brothels for paid sex,(ok they are still my friends),they do that for reasons best known to them, there had been many occasions when i was enticed or even coaxed to go along with them, but thank god my conscience has always been intact..
I had been labelled as "not man enough", "chicken" ,"queen control" or even " are you bi?",none of my reasons to my friends can satisfy them untill i concocted my excuse it has since stop them from bugging me....
Since i told my friends about me not fancy using condom whilst having IT, and how i analogized to that of rubbing my delicate skin against the wall, how pleasure turned to torture, they really accepted my reasons...........now they really know i hate condoms, and how i dare not wager my safety in sex for a quikie in one or two or three.
This post is actually inspired by another blogger friend who talked about AIDS as the mass murderer.
You know untill i now,i can still hear people talking about how contracting AIDS is akin to striking a lottery, how sad it really sounds, doesn't it?
I believe sex is the divine gift from god, how god wanted two to get intertwined in a union in surrendering oneself wholeheartedly to the other, not for lust, but for love.
P/S : We Must be Naugty in our own bed, but we must not be naughty in others' bed(s)