Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Never Ending Tragedy...........

He charges into the sleeping room where his wife and his 17 years old daughter are sleeping, maybe he hurls some abusive words, and starts splashing some acid on these two poor souls, they are defendless at that time, no one is there to help them.

The wife rushes out from the house and asks for help, good neighbour rushes them to hospital, after few hours in the ICU, the wife succumbs to the effect of the acid which burns 80 % of her body and she dies, this is not the end yet. The daughter who also suffers from the wrath of the father has confirmed to have lost her sight, resulting from the acid burn as well, a 17 years old girl, a brilliant student, having her future distorted and destroyed from the hand of her own MTF father.

And the latest report is that the father claims that he only wants to scare the wife, not expecting such a tragedy to happen, my God who would ever trying to scare someone with acid, and i dont believe the acid could be so easy available in the oddest of time, if it is not prepared earlier. I am trying to hold on to the fundamental of the law which states " a person is considered innocent till provened guilty" but in this case, is he or is he not?

During the funeral, a reporter asks the only son of the victim, will he ever forgive his own father after what he has done to his mother and sister, with his eyes moist with tears and voice chocked intermittinly and says this" No way no way, i will never forgive him, he is like an animal, worst than a DOG" i guess indeed he is. (This is the true tragedy happened last friday in my state, Penang)

I remember i used to tell my lady friends, please leave your man, even if he lays his hands on you for the very first time, there is always a repetition and it will become habitual of him to use his hands to vend his frustration.

I want to share this with you guys a story shared to me by a good old lady friend of mine, she has got a friend, whose husband just loved to have sex with her in the middle of the night, like 2 3 am in the morning,(may be that's when his blood rushes to his penis, gets him all excited) and everytime she refused his advances, he would just go to the kictchen and broke up some kitchen wares, making some noise, and rushed back to the sleeping room again and demanded that the wife give in to his sexual urge, and the wife gave in everytime. My question is, is this the man we want to spend the rest of our lives with?

Gone are the days, where ladies are required to submit wholeheartedly to the man, even if the men are morbid, abusive, violent and crazy. Gone are the days, where the ladies have to kow-tow to the man's needs whenever they want it and not you want it. Stand up, to see if you are in danger.

P/S : Beware of the Commander in Shit


24 comments:

  1. yes so NO to domestic violence...especially the ladies...dont forget men sometimes suffer too :)

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  2. I read that in Spore papers today, that's really sad. And, as what my colleague, who's did police training before, told me that anger is destructive. It can lead you to things which is not imaginable that you're capable of doing it. Thus, let's keep cool all the while.

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  3. I think don't think this is domestic violence anymore. This is something very cruel. Gosh! What happened to the day? Is he crazy? :(

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  4. Anyway I have just cared for you bro. Take care ya. :D

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  5. I think he preplanned this for some time. I read the son saw a receipt for purchase of acid but they couldn't find the bottle anywhere in the house.
    I hope he lives in misery to regret all his life. I can't help but think of the poor girl's life of misery, all hopes dashed and the most bitter feeling of being hurt by her own father.

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  6. extremely tragic....so... is this man sane or insane?

    Chinese saying "for chay ngan" fire covers the eyes and at that spur of the anger, he will just grab hold of something ...

    but if the bottle of acid was bought earlier, then this is not aninsane man.. it is pre-planned so that makes him sane...

    i seem to be answering my own question..

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  7. at the very least, a manslaughter - which means life imprisonment. in a slammer is where he belongs.

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  8. I always cannot tolerate with man who talked with his hand!!!... btw, it is good for us to know this kind of man in very beginning..

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  9. feel sorry for the daughter...what kind of animal that hurts his own family!! =/ I hope he will be punished to what he deserves...and more!

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  10. Times have changed. Must learn to give and take... There are many factors to consider...so I will refrain from passing any judgement.

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  11. if i were your friend, i'll cut his penis when he's sleeping! even if she is his wife, forcing her to have sex with him is considered rape

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  12. I agreed with Claire sometimes when people angry they won't care anymore just do whatever they want to... Haizz just wondering what happened to the people out there?? >_<

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  13. Scare the wife with acid? Waaaa now that is one painful scarring! SCAR-ring... People who does things before thinking twice / consequences.

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  14. *sigh* sad to hear this news.

    Like Claire said, the man must be "for chay ngan" till he did something that he regret for his whole life (if he did regret!)!

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  15. This is so sad.... especially the children.... Sigh what make the father so angry want to scare the wife with acid?

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  16. women at this modern age shouldn't fear the men..be brave..

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  17. if my husband dares to hit me even a little bit, I'd run back to my father and make sure my father points a shotgun to his head or better still, drag him to court. That is what I'll do. Women should not submit to their husband's violence, as if there is a first time, surely there will be a second time, there's no doubt about it.

    And as for sex at an ungodly hour, if men really wants em from their wife, he either seduce her and arouse her, not DEMAND for it like some ball-less jerk!

    And women, what is wrong with you? If men can DEMAND for sex, you can DEMAND for it as well to satisfy your needs! men are not the only dastardly creature who have sexual needs, women have it too!

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  18. Really feel sad to read and hear the news...Domestic violence is getting more and more nowadays. Some lead to murder. Sad...

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  19. Thank again guys for sharing your thoughts here,,, luv ya

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  20. forcing the wife to tunggang as early as 2-3am is a kinda sadist habit.should just DIY lo..

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  21. yeah i read about the tragedy in the star and it's so close to where my brother's in-laws' house so i know the area. so terrible.

    the second part of your blog is very well-said. agree with you totally.

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  22. That was indeed a tragic incident.

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