I find this to be kind of funny and sad at the same time, it has got to do with sex, religion, a wife, celibacy and marriage. A conversation between a friend and me, a friend that was kind enough to share his predicament and his woe with me, initially i thought he was talking nonsense but he told me it was more than real, i asked him if i could blog about it, he said ok, because he too wanted to know, if what he was facing, ever happened to somebody else.
He said his wife had changed, not a normal self already, he lamented to me. I asked how did she change, had she found a new interest, or had she got tired of you, he refuted my opinions. He told me they were like very close, a healthy marriage, a fullfilling sexual relationship and everything was going smooth untill about two months ago, when she started attending a religious gathering which involved fasting, chanting, meditation and whatever not. Thereafter, sex was like sag to him,kiss was like shit, romance was like torment and he said he could not take it anymore.
He said, he could not have sex with his wife on friday, that was the day she would go fasting, and it was strickly a taboo to engage in sexual activity when she fasted, he complained to me. He said even when times if he could have sex with her, it was not like last time,(kind of hell broke loose type), she would be inertia, and emotionless, he whined again.
Now the wife kept talking about englightenment, about life after life, about how temporal we were on this earth, again he bewailed and bemoaned to me. He asked me what my advice was for him................... i was like jokingly telling him, first thing he should do was to celibate and then follow by castrating himself, he scolded me.. "crazy lah you"
Seriously, i told him i really didnt know how to advise him, when i asked him to talk to his wife and told me he tried but to no avail. I'd heard about so many funny things about so called "religious practices" which were weird and absurd, but didnt know it could happen to my friend.
Q1) Why do you think that caused the sudden change in the wife?
Q2) What funny rituals have you ever heard from any religious practices?
Q3) What were you do if you were to be my friend?
P/S : I thought God wanted us to have sex and multiply?