Tuesday, August 04, 2009

A Man's Mischief

Been wanting to blog about this funny incident,now that i remember so here it goes........

One day last week,i was sitting alone in a coffee shop enjoying my lunch, in front of me,with his back facing me,i was sure that i knew this guy (my old neighbour), seated close to him was a lady,i didnt make the effort to saying hi to him but as i made my way back from the washroom, going back to my seat,he saw me and talked to me very briefly.

When i was done with my drink, i stood up, calling out his name "Jumbo, i see you" and i began to walk out of the coffee shop and before i could make the full exit, somebody was charging at me, and gave me a pat on the shoulder and said this. " Eugene, please wait for a while" i looked back, it was Jumbo and he gave me a silly smile and suddenly he said this to me that made me perplexed, " Please dont tell Michelle that you saw me with a girl, you know lah, man's thing" and i replied" man got to do what man got to do, dont worry "

One thing for sure, i will not tell Jumbo's wife what i saw, simply because they are just the old neigbours to me. But the question is, what if this Jumbo guy were to be someone close to me, for instance, my brother in law and telling me the same thing that Jumbo told me, what would i do, i really wonder? should i tell or should i not?

P/S : If you really want to show off, make sure it is not you..............

20 comments:

  1. that is a very good question to ponder. But I guess I will tell the truth is been asked or maybe give warning in a not so straight way.

    ReplyDelete
  2. tough qn, but if he were your bro-in-law, you & him should have a serious chat about the issue; after all, he's married to your sis. give him an opportunity to change(everyone deserves a 2nd chance, no?)

    the fact that he asked you not to tell his wife suggests that he still wants to remain married, whatever his reasons are. you should not tell his wife(yet) but if his wife asked you, then you should not lie either.

    marriage is meant for 2; 3 is a crowd & there will be losers, make no mistake about that.

    (gee, aren't you glad he's only a neighbour??)

    ReplyDelete
  3. If that happened to my dear brother and soster.
    Sure, I will tell my siblings of my suspicion on their the other half.
    Let them observe and investigate on this very issue.
    If the same happen, give a warning!

    ReplyDelete
  4. If it happen for just once ...it can still be forgive that .... but if this happen for few more times ... it's a must to tell the truth... no choice =s ...

    ReplyDelete
  5. I never bother. Other people's business. They've got their troubles, I've got mine. As long as I'm not like that...good enough.

    ReplyDelete
  6. i will tell.. i will tell... i mean jumbo's wife... hahahaa... jumbo will come after me..

    well, seriously, it depends.. as he is your neighbour, then better not interfere.. but if own family, i will surely put a word of caution... it is better to give warning signs than being too late...

    ReplyDelete
  7. Entah la,
    I think its better to leave it...keep myself quiet. Let them find out for themselve. Sebab kite tak tau what the response will be. Maybe the victim will be "you" hahaha Maybe u'll be mistaken as the one thats trying to ruin a relationship.

    Alota guys i know will really brush it away,however gurls will not let it go hahaha.For me, i try to keep out of trouble hehehe

    ReplyDelete
  8. huhu..."man thing"

    poor jumbo wife...

    ReplyDelete
  9. To me I will tell if it is relatives or siblings matter but since Jumbo case is "fren and fren" ...then I better shut my mouth up!

    ReplyDelete
  10. Wow! Good question! For me as brother/sister i would never tell in my life! I guess i just not brave enough to tell them. Because for me i think eventually they will find out with their own way.

    P/S: i send you awards in my blog! LOL check out my blog lah~ cheers

    ReplyDelete
  11. Tough situation to be in. If its my own family of course I'd tell them, definitely wouldnt' want them to be cheated on.

    ReplyDelete
  12. wow...what a situation. I think better dont interferelah. hopefully the wife wont ask u anything then. cos that will make u very uneasy...:-) But if it's a family affair then i think u should not tell the wife before u talk to the bro-in-law. It's better for the bro to come clean. Some wives cant take this calmly..
    well, i dont know actually. When we are really faced with the situation then only we know what we'll do..:-)

    ReplyDelete
  13. I I were to face with this similar situation, I will tell Jumbo "I hope we are both dreaming"! And walked away to see Jumbo's wife telling her that Jumbo has been daydreaming.

    ReplyDelete
  14. very tough.... but i believe even some wives also likes to act as if they 'don't know got such thing'. Some rather act blur than to throw up a quarrel with their spouse.

    ReplyDelete
  15. It really depends on how close our relationship with the wives. Like the first comment here, warning in a not so straight way like give them some hint?..hehe

    ReplyDelete
  16. The above comment are my comment and I only realise my son use my laptop to update his blog...

    AMY

    ReplyDelete
  17. What i can say is I pity Jumbo's wife...

    Sometimes I really scared to read ur posts...

    Me make me more 'tension' as my wedding date is coming sooner and sooner...

    *sweeat....*

    ## But hor, what you wrote were what happened in real life lah...

    ReplyDelete
  18. Oops! Thats tough. I really don't know what I would do .....

    ReplyDelete
  19. you know what guys,i bumped into jumbo again and with the same girl this afternoon still during lunch,,, i sense some fishy going on,,,,,, may be to save the trouble i switch coffee shop,

    ReplyDelete