"Someone very close to me" is facing some serious finacial problems,if he happens to be just another friend, i shall not bother for i have helped some friends before but he is someone very close to me, so it breaks my heart when i knew that actual situation of financial dilemma he is going through.
You know sometimes it agitates me on why people just dont learn, why people just dont know that there is a thing called " cut the clothes according to the cloth" why people just dont bother to save whenever they can, dont they know " every drop makes an ocean ?" everytime when i wanted to advise this "someone very close to me" i was always labelled as talking too much. I am flabbergasted but i still cant sit down and do nothing about it for he is "someone very close to me"
I always like this Chinese idiom 花无百日红 （flowers wont stay bloom all the time) and it has always been my motto of life,for i know for certain in life the ups and downs are as evident as the air we breathe. When we are up, are we prepared for the downs?
Back to the story of "someone very close to me", i can only hope that he will find some ways out, and i am willing to assist in anyway possible,in ways that i deem fit.
Just let me digress a lill" bit here, i have a friend,when he was doing all right in his business,he never thought that bad times could befall him,so he spent,he splurged and he even maxed all of his credit cards(5 gold,1 platinum). In 2005,he accrued a combined credit card debt about RM68K, along the way business dropped,and slowly but surely his credit card debt has balloned to RM140K in 2008.
By the way, i was born in October that makes me a scorpion, obstinate but with loads of love,sigh.........................
Q) do you really find it hard to save ?
Ireally wish i had a million cash in the bank for me.................
P/S : You cant be reticent, when blood is thicker than water, can you?