tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post5669663462453829840..comments2023-10-20T18:19:54.924+08:00Comments on Bold Talk: I am kind of jaded................Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-38610863225451451082009-09-10T02:27:17.155+08:002009-09-10T02:27:17.155+08:00I only have 1 elder brother and we are not close. ...I only have 1 elder brother and we are not close. But we are seeing each other quite often and we celebrate Father's Day, Mother's Day and any birthday of the family members together. I had a big fight with him few months back and that made me changed my view on him. I was so disappointed. But he's still my brother.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07022175527634088822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-64429455015544151112009-09-08T13:59:07.920+08:002009-09-08T13:59:07.920+08:00i m "close" to my siblings as a responsi...i m "close" to my siblings as a responsibility... cos i dont want 20-30 yrs down the road..we are strangers..I m taking EFFORT...hope it will pay offLittleLambhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13871928542491062827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-9498983868269986642009-09-08T13:21:40.181+08:002009-09-08T13:21:40.181+08:00My parents both come from big family with many sib...My parents both come from big family with many siblings, while I only has one brother, so I am very close to him emotionally. I don't know how it's like to have many siblings until I am exposed to my late hubs' siblings - 7 of them, my brother and sisters in law. They are very very close as a family, and it boiled down to the matriach of the family, my mother in law. I firmly believe,Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09470815691115555304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-64911405653295109362009-09-08T11:21:33.196+08:002009-09-08T11:21:33.196+08:00siblings and i are okay =)
we bully each other at ...siblings and i are okay =)<br />we bully each other at times.. haha..<br /><br /><a href="http://kenwooi.com" rel="nofollow">kenwooi.com</a>Ken Wooihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777306693372682810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-51149784828603572132009-09-08T06:02:58.797+08:002009-09-08T06:02:58.797+08:00my brother and I are not close. we don't fight...my brother and I are not close. we don't fight or have sibling rivalry but we're just not like other siblings who share lots and lots. we've been like this since young and my mum always said maybe my brother and i have no 'yuan' (chinese people will understand what this word means, it's hard to explain in English)... but at least his children do make me birthday cards and PengPeng彬彬https://www.blogger.com/profile/04213801820990741180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-39118256947792307782009-09-08T04:08:15.040+08:002009-09-08T04:08:15.040+08:00Don't be sad eugene.Don't be sad eugene.amycheahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16498278432236066900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-70526270664088198472009-09-07T23:04:49.749+08:002009-09-07T23:04:49.749+08:00eugene..see how many good frens u have? sometimes ...eugene..see how many good frens u have? sometimes we cannot please everybody all the time... we have to accept that... <br />oh, though my siblings and i are ok ok, i cannot remember their actual birthdays.. month can.. actual date, i cannot.. now u remind me, i must write them down.. my poor memory is giving me away...Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-17288604026024222162009-09-07T22:55:11.245+08:002009-09-07T22:55:11.245+08:00don't worry, eugene, nor get too upset ok? as ...don't worry, eugene, nor get too upset ok? as long as you do your part, then your duty is done. don't put too much 'heart' into it. not meaning do with no heart, but protect your heart when doing good. know what i mean? <br />good man can sleep well at night.<br />that is the most important thing.tutihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10111969008544490122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-16877760111319645552009-09-07T22:19:00.318+08:002009-09-07T22:19:00.318+08:00They say blood runs thicker than water...but not n...They say blood runs thicker than water...but not necessarily true. Some friends are better than one's own siblings...like me! Hehehehehe!suituapuinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-72432563743530444242009-09-07T21:14:00.183+08:002009-09-07T21:14:00.183+08:00well, there are 8 siblings in my family. we are ok...well, there are 8 siblings in my family. we are ok eventhough not very close.wennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535757998884625545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-31600685108909547362009-09-07T20:20:33.358+08:002009-09-07T20:20:33.358+08:00my own family okay but my wife's side got sibl...my own family okay but my wife's side got sibling feud becoz of not-proportional-given properties and monies when the parents died.Ah Ngaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00850002410473383697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-51744571581675298742009-09-07T19:47:24.801+08:002009-09-07T19:47:24.801+08:00I am close to my sisters!
But I have yet to be cl...I am close to my sisters! <br />But I have yet to be close with my husband's siblings. I need to jia you! I donno why, but I feel like being treated as an outsider in his family... T__TJosephinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04094675013628887362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-77348286921680811152009-09-07T18:48:17.677+08:002009-09-07T18:48:17.677+08:00I am the youngest in my family. Got other 3 siblin...I am the youngest in my family. Got other 3 siblings, they all elder than me about 11, 12 & 13 years old such a big age differences. So each times they quarrel i normally just lay back and lazy to fight between them because even i am correct, none of them will listen to me also, because they might think that i am the youngest for them it is very pointless to listen a youngest sister. Sounds Aeiweenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07802934192296766451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-28901308065322620902009-09-07T18:31:11.394+08:002009-09-07T18:31:11.394+08:00Looks like eventually every family siblings go thr...Looks like eventually every family siblings go through this ordeal in life... I wonder why... I don't know about my, but me and my siblings barely talk either... of course we do remember each others birthday :). So that is something good at least.<br /><br />All the best to you, Eugene. I can't give much words of wisdom since my isn't all perfect too.ladyviralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13492604818640606312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-91251869651296429232009-09-07T18:16:34.624+08:002009-09-07T18:16:34.624+08:00I always thought that my relationship with my sibl...I always thought that my relationship with my siblings (Like you, there are 5 of us with 3 girls and 2 boys.) was warm and close knit but our relationship really came to the test when we had to start taking care of an aged dad with dementia. Then sadly, the true colors showed.....Mumsgatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08578910510946597934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-74483249892565725762009-09-07T18:01:51.795+08:002009-09-07T18:01:51.795+08:00sorry to hear this..
lucky for myself..
my siblin...sorry to hear this..<br />lucky for myself..<br /><br />my siblings and I are hanging out pretty well.. ^_^<br />I think it's all my mum's contribution.. she always emphasize on how we should keep in touch with out siblings since we were very small until now.. <br /><br />my mum made a really great example for us to follow as well, because of her, we are pretty closed with our mother'Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17048765167034045774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-51078967731078888992009-09-07T17:57:56.337+08:002009-09-07T17:57:56.337+08:00I have only 1 sibling,
have no feud but no close b...I have only 1 sibling,<br />have no feud but no close bond either..<br /><br />My mom n dad each has 8 siblings and you might wanna try what we do every month to maintain the bond.. ARISAN <br />I don't know the English word haha, <br /><br />But the point is to meet up every month, have a meal, chat, catching up. <br />Only once a month, and it'll be a start for y'all :)Miss Zanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08075339326358730594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-26002387331592091212009-09-07T17:36:35.694+08:002009-09-07T17:36:35.694+08:00life's like that. have less expectations, then...life's like that. have less expectations, then we'll be happier. meanwhile continue to care for your siblings, as that's the natural you. one way they'll appreciate your caring for them. cheer up :)coffeesncookieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04966978505780721659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-46830613656981854252009-09-07T17:36:20.632+08:002009-09-07T17:36:20.632+08:00life's like that. have less expectations, then...life's like that. have less expectations, then we'll be happier. meanwhile continue to care for your siblings, as that's the natural you. one way they'll appreciate your caring for them. cheer up :)coffeesncookieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04966978505780721659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-61207721303440283742009-09-07T17:21:13.679+08:002009-09-07T17:21:13.679+08:00In a family,we would start a fight, bickering on l...In a family,we would start a fight, bickering on lil things or start pinching one another for no reasons...but the wonderful thing is,after all that bickering & quarelling...we somehow can put them aside & pretend nothing happened & start laughing again.<br /><br />Even we feel theres no closeness, their still love inside. Maybe they dont ask abt ur day...but i trully think they will axxahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01600965052874032566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-36159078946323342152009-09-07T16:45:34.731+08:002009-09-07T16:45:34.731+08:00Hmmmm.....I'm not sure why Eugene. But if you ...Hmmmm.....I'm not sure why Eugene. But if you try really, really hard enough then things will work out eventually. You mustn't give up. Because blood is thicker than water. :)<br /><br />Me and my bro have been brought up to love and care for each other by my late mum. And I believe our strong bond will last.<br /><br />Perhaps you could try a little harder? All the best bro. :)Tekkaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12433320698714867028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-84659420413467813962009-09-07T16:30:35.396+08:002009-09-07T16:30:35.396+08:00hehe...luckily I and siblings are great. Though no...hehe...luckily I and siblings are great. Though not very close. But we still contact each other specially the girls. We still do exchange birthday wishes. Dont give up. ONe day they will realise your love for them. :-)Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13667184709620636032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-42331590293848410722009-09-07T16:30:29.879+08:002009-09-07T16:30:29.879+08:00on my wife's side, have a big problem with her...on my wife's side, have a big problem with her siblings, and i cant image what will happened next, i event have a heart attack becos of it, the last thing i could think, to take my wife away from her family, so that we could live happily ever after, if not otherwiseMy Reality and Fantasy Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03911006203463915242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-36161451729204614832009-09-07T16:17:35.926+08:002009-09-07T16:17:35.926+08:00I think this is quite common among bigger families...I think this is quite common among bigger families, siblings... even in my own family, we have our clashes at times, but as i said, humility is important.. as long as one starts calling back the other, the relationship will be restored...<br />Well, eugene, i understand how u feel, u want to have the family bonding but the others are not making any effort... i m sure they will realise it one day.Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-52633822282707334702009-09-07T16:04:45.714+08:002009-09-07T16:04:45.714+08:00I am sorry to hear this.. Me myself.. asking '...I am sorry to hear this.. Me myself.. asking 'WHY????'... But grateful to know you are taking care of them... 1 day they will realize about that... hopefully!! ^_^<br /><br />keep taking care of each other... ^_^CathJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11835008066434660055noreply@blogger.com