tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post5510896203181252357..comments2023-10-20T18:19:54.924+08:00Comments on Bold Talk: I just can't help himAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-69747156956092785182010-11-15T18:46:46.966+08:002010-11-15T18:46:46.966+08:00"I said to myself i'd helped him a few ti..."I said to myself i'd helped him a few times already financially, thus this time i just can't do it for him." <br /><br />(Psalm 37:21) The wicked borrows but DOES NOT PAY BACK, but the righteous is generous and gives;<br /><br />Don't be a sucker for somebody who made blunders with their finances, bro. Let him learn from his mistakes. If people keeps on bailing him out (byAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-54613560955325384432010-11-09T20:54:11.103+08:002010-11-09T20:54:11.103+08:00Voon : i have been friend with Ah Weng for about 1...Voon : i have been friend with Ah Weng for about 11 years now, i have seen his up and now down,but sadly when he was up, he just could not believe he would go down.<br /><br />h Ngao : Moms always give good advice, don't theyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-88755666128159682422010-11-09T19:34:28.663+08:002010-11-09T19:34:28.663+08:00tell him to jump from the highest bridge??...* sig...tell him to jump from the highest bridge??...* sigh * - also not fair to his family. ok,i'll lend him the 140k,but with what will he pay me back? sell his backside? it'll take years and years of instalment. my mum ever advices me & my brothers to spend wisely and not borrow anyhow and also told us ,we sell our arseholes also can't repay the debts - really.i guess,still theres a Ah Ngaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00850002410473383697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-89309083556989683352010-11-09T17:36:05.978+08:002010-11-09T17:36:05.978+08:00I don’t know what I will do if I am Ah Weng.
I hop...I don’t know what I will do if I am Ah Weng.<br />I hope he will ok soon. Wish he can win the lottery.CH Voonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18167896831738000503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-91081198851472991202010-11-09T09:09:04.259+08:002010-11-09T09:09:04.259+08:00There is so much one can do,, may be he will have ...There is so much one can do,, may be he will have to find his own way and hopefully God will open up other avenues for Ah Weng my friend.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-87615504067545145212010-11-08T23:55:33.281+08:002010-11-08T23:55:33.281+08:00MOney will always tear friendship apart. How good ...MOney will always tear friendship apart. How good a friendship can be, once we start lending money , all the trouble will come.. based on my past experiences.. :(Merrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-41639889958610003352010-11-08T21:15:18.761+08:002010-11-08T21:15:18.761+08:00After the 4K, then what next?After the 4K, then what next?Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-213161849439109512010-11-08T18:43:36.198+08:002010-11-08T18:43:36.198+08:00Wah, how did he accumulate debt so high?Wah, how did he accumulate debt so high?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08258163158330408833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-32352256988392096392010-11-08T18:19:54.484+08:002010-11-08T18:19:54.484+08:00You definately can't help him anymore.
He'...You definately can't help him anymore.<br /><br />He's in deep shit, let him cover his own shit.sexyjessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09422189276079986488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-18486669648401257892010-11-08T17:41:56.627+08:002010-11-08T17:41:56.627+08:00Eugene bro: I'm bec. So will you help him? Poo...Eugene bro: I'm bec. So will you help him? Poor him la... Anyway, if u really have that extra u help him. if is not then tell him frankly.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07710484000863586238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-65094469742000888492010-11-08T16:50:02.882+08:002010-11-08T16:50:02.882+08:00even if u can lend him 3k... how long can it cover...even if u can lend him 3k... how long can it cover him for? :/Ju Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210962625974146527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-48021731486478632962010-11-08T16:37:07.055+08:002010-11-08T16:37:07.055+08:00Poor Ah Weng, but he has to pay the price himself....Poor Ah Weng, but he has to pay the price himself. He'll never learn if helps keep pouring in easily. You are already helping him when you denied his request.yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16500454253801613403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-58662284364635489032010-11-08T16:19:39.505+08:002010-11-08T16:19:39.505+08:00Oh dear... Your friend is indeed in such a predica...Oh dear... Your friend is indeed in such a predicament. Just hoping that there's a silver lining in his grey clouds. I hope you are well though. Have a good rest of the week! XxFelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08043333171353166342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-65236493827723732192010-11-08T14:31:11.155+08:002010-11-08T14:31:11.155+08:00Gab : i am glad i helped once, twice.
Jama : gues...Gab : i am glad i helped once, twice.<br /><br />Jama : guess you are right<br /><br />Arthur : You are right too, niether a borrower nor a lender<br /><br />Norris : Semoga Tuhan yang maha esha dapat membuka ruang untuk kawan saya tu.<br /><br />Hayley : The problem is most of us dont learn our lessons well...<br /><br />Su : The problem again is not how much we earn it is how much we manage to Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-57544837000241063002010-11-08T14:28:11.691+08:002010-11-08T14:28:11.691+08:00OMG! That is a big amount!!!
An example that it is...OMG! That is a big amount!!!<br />An example that it is not a good idea having credit card. My sister also have the same problem, she asked for my help a few times. I just don't understand because her salary is twice compare to me. No matter what, she is my sister so I have to help her...<br /><br />As for your friend, I don't know what to say...You already help him a few times and the Sumandak Kinabaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12087464327790921438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-37862070161600016992010-11-08T14:25:27.232+08:002010-11-08T14:25:27.232+08:00Sorry to hear about your friend's story =_=
We...Sorry to hear about your friend's story =_=<br />Well, money is a very sensitive issue, for men.<br />So, all the best to you and your friend...Hayleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02599788122894448245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-6672705012795569262010-11-08T13:30:01.661+08:002010-11-08T13:30:01.661+08:00satu situasi yang sangat sukat tu bro...kalau saya...satu situasi yang sangat sukat tu bro...kalau saya pun takda 3k...<br />orang mcm tu kasian jugak tapi kalau dia dan pinjamsana sini belum tau la bila turn kita punya nak bayar...<br />pray for him...God will open the way for himNorris Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01679475474357523437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-91486530895124612982010-11-08T13:29:54.114+08:002010-11-08T13:29:54.114+08:00The old proverb teaches, "Never a lender nor ...The old proverb teaches, "Never a lender nor a borrower be." Everyone has their own priorities - you have yours...especially towards your family. They must come first. If you want to help your friend, you must be able to spare that amount...or you may not see it anymore. <br /><br />Like in my case, my friend was supposed to pay me back in a year before my daughter left for New Zealand suituapuihttp://suituapui.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-19366936686604342362010-11-08T13:21:57.723+08:002010-11-08T13:21:57.723+08:00He can't just go on digging one hole just to c...He can't just go on digging one hole just to cover the previous hole. He need to face reality and starts paying off his debts and not to borrow more money. You have to be cruel to help him.Jamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01165901556595808031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-44227242569283785142010-11-08T13:12:59.848+08:002010-11-08T13:12:59.848+08:00I would help when financially able.
Wish him well....I would help when financially able.<br />Wish him well.<br />+Ant+Gratitudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15380730586120593527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-83637274149418859582010-11-08T12:34:00.867+08:002010-11-08T12:34:00.867+08:00Chris: i will do that, tq
Tekkaus : i really wish...Chris: i will do that, tq<br /><br />Tekkaus : i really wish i had extra lol<br /><br />Kuching guy : i agree with you, many years ago, when i told this friend to be careful with his spending, he told me never mind lah,, can kau tim, now, i am not running down a friend, but it is sad that a lot of us should not have let this happenAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-43641454281102570962010-11-08T12:28:54.337+08:002010-11-08T12:28:54.337+08:00No, you can't help this guy. He needs to face...No, you can't help this guy. He needs to face the reality himself. Any amount you lend him will be gone for good.<br />If he needs it for medical causes may be you can help. But if his debts are due to reckless spending habits, you cannot help and should not help him.Kuching Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-84930518953164132082010-11-08T12:19:46.680+08:002010-11-08T12:19:46.680+08:00I don't know what to say bro. If in the end......I don't know what to say bro. If in the end....he still can't find it...you might have to help him...Tekkaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12433320698714867028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-70736955179753005802010-11-08T12:02:50.260+08:002010-11-08T12:02:50.260+08:00Poor guy... anyway, lend wisely bro.Poor guy... anyway, lend wisely bro.ChrisAuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14077277168519458783noreply@blogger.com