tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post5282064270807027177..comments2023-10-20T18:19:54.924+08:00Comments on Bold Talk: Words........ very bad words.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-91174716531046380552010-08-03T20:47:35.858+08:002010-08-03T20:47:35.858+08:00"...Even if i bring back woman to our house, ..."...Even if i bring back woman to our house, what can you do, if you dont like it, you can walk out."<br /><br />OUCH!! He's an idiot!!! Sorry to say. <br /><br />Anyway, as a parent, refrain from saying things that hurt your child. I've been hurt by my parents' words, and when I tell them, it's like talking to the wall... sad huh? But then, they are conservatives born Kevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17389773199819970714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-45170338616207355952010-08-03T16:58:03.709+08:002010-08-03T16:58:03.709+08:00Me too, at times, were quite harsh on my children....Me too, at times, were quite harsh on my children. I am now learning to manage my temper and words that I used.Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-14427135289609140892010-08-03T16:18:55.588+08:002010-08-03T16:18:55.588+08:00Thanks guys for the comments, appreciate itThanks guys for the comments, appreciate itAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-23375561383346108542010-08-02T23:28:45.872+08:002010-08-02T23:28:45.872+08:00according to the wise Yoda, anger leads to the Dar...according to the wise Yoda, anger leads to the Dark Side.<br /><br />how true is that!!!dochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07021242538740116343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-51058896020251660252010-08-02T18:59:46.279+08:002010-08-02T18:59:46.279+08:00I guess we just hv to be more mindful before wrong...I guess we just hv to be more mindful before wrong words are said.<br />+Ant+Gratitudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15380730586120593527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-28009387902739045962010-08-02T15:35:24.555+08:002010-08-02T15:35:24.555+08:00Oh dear... my husband likes to use that phrase on ...Oh dear... my husband likes to use that phrase on my girl too, " I don't want you!" or " You get out of the house" sort of words... I personally think it's cruel and irresponsible, I feel very sorry for your friend!<br /><br />Have a nice day!Alice Lawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04771321722368712404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-32208833467537812172010-08-02T09:33:45.652+08:002010-08-02T09:33:45.652+08:00是该反省了。该注意口气及用词。不然孩子会反感。。。我们从不发觉其实一句冲动的话是会留在听的人的心里,...是该反省了。该注意口气及用词。不然孩子会反感。。。我们从不发觉其实一句冲动的话是会留在听的人的心里,那么那么的久。。。193https://www.blogger.com/profile/09745485152135768347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-2178577413974508122010-08-02T01:10:07.999+08:002010-08-02T01:10:07.999+08:00Agree with Angel Bear.Agree with Angel Bear.smallkucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13083310952900700638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-38256498737724359652010-08-02T00:43:57.677+08:002010-08-02T00:43:57.677+08:00hrm...yeah..sometimes the wrong choice of words ca...hrm...yeah..sometimes the wrong choice of words can cause misunderstandings. thank you for sharing. I need to remind myself to control my words....AngeL BeaRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08695359434568121854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-8184711384768821242010-08-02T00:08:12.065+08:002010-08-02T00:08:12.065+08:00a wise person once said, 'never forget the wor...a wise person once said, 'never forget the words said by an angry person for those words come from the heart' (or something like dat :P)<br /><br />i take seriously what ppl say during an argument as i know he/she won't say that during normal circumstances out of courtesy but when provoked and in anger, truth comes out and i'll remember those words and take heed..Merrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-26699715689609370062010-08-02T00:05:09.450+08:002010-08-02T00:05:09.450+08:00words.... they can either heal u or hurt u. Thus, ...words.... they can either heal u or hurt u. Thus, be selective with the words, though it could be just a casual comment.ChrisAuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14077277168519458783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-36212826521444577882010-08-01T23:01:37.646+08:002010-08-01T23:01:37.646+08:00always best to communicate..always best to communicate..wennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535757998884625545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-68044557259424165512010-08-01T21:23:04.727+08:002010-08-01T21:23:04.727+08:00last time(not now anymore) i uses words to "p...last time(not now anymore) i uses words to "pasang" gals or ladies, so word are very powerful.see what Hitler did to his nation,he talks more than he action.Ah Ngaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00850002410473383697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-33911749633196108482010-08-01T19:30:23.109+08:002010-08-01T19:30:23.109+08:00Slow to speak, quick to listen. We are given the ...Slow to speak, quick to listen. We are given the spirit of self-control before we can utter bad words.<br /><br />Remember whatever we uttered bad or harsh words, it cannot be return back.<br /><br />Do not let unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up. <br />Eph 4:29sexyjessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09422189276079986488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-4111164996275451392010-08-01T17:35:04.808+08:002010-08-01T17:35:04.808+08:00Proverbs 18:21 says death and life are in the powe...Proverbs 18:21 says death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof...<br /><br />The power to build someone up or tear them down We can choose to speak words of encouragment or words that hurts and destroy.<br />It is so important for us to continue to remind ourselves how our words can hurt and scar someone or we can built up someone.<br />I am johnnie limhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00288534127132391855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-78661522292287313162010-08-01T15:12:10.896+08:002010-08-01T15:12:10.896+08:00The older people always advised: Words that have c...The older people always advised: Words that have come out of the mouth can never be put back again. Hurt may be forgiven but not forgotten, so watch your words.suituapuihttp://suituapui.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-62429192337210479592010-08-01T13:49:59.711+08:002010-08-01T13:49:59.711+08:00sometimes the tone we used is not right and that m...sometimes the tone we used is not right and that might lead to misunderstanding..Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-87639156944783531452010-08-01T12:42:41.925+08:002010-08-01T12:42:41.925+08:00Indeed, words can heal or kill. Thinking before w...Indeed, words can heal or kill. Thinking before we speak and putting ourselves in the other person's shoes do help but alas(!) human nature being such, in a rage, we sometimes speak without thinking and words spoken are not retrievable. Good that your son spoke up so that amends, if any, can be made. As for that couple's relationship, it's most unfortunate things like this do HappySurferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01444290549991093661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-68727441491407529722010-08-01T12:14:18.348+08:002010-08-01T12:14:18.348+08:00I hv to learn to control my words too when scoldin...I hv to learn to control my words too when scolding my eldest.. one day she will be old enough to tell me that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08258163158330408833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-48972227541983529112010-08-01T09:39:17.417+08:002010-08-01T09:39:17.417+08:00Yes, bro, not easy to be on the 'older' po...Yes, bro, not easy to be on the 'older' position espeacially when the values are in conflict.Anak Pinanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08449299193584407774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-25280967031954417962010-08-01T09:21:42.702+08:002010-08-01T09:21:42.702+08:00sometimes kids need to learn facts of life and eld...sometimes kids need to learn facts of life and elders to guide them between right & wrong.... its good to share with them and teach them abt life.Lily Rianihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06139852906750226047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-15301422335210298212010-08-01T07:09:30.232+08:002010-08-01T07:09:30.232+08:00i really admire the openness that you have with yo...i really admire the openness that you have with your children. Well done eugene and i think respecting them enough to share with them issues like these is really the way to bring up your children to become mature and responsible adults in future.PengPeng彬彬https://www.blogger.com/profile/04213801820990741180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-64090463965506744802010-08-01T06:06:19.573+08:002010-08-01T06:06:19.573+08:00Your eldest must accept that what you have done is...Your eldest must accept that what you have done is for his good. Well...sometimes temper flares...but I am sure he will understand it one day.Tekkaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12433320698714867028noreply@blogger.com