tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post2472643069811970869..comments2023-10-20T18:19:54.924+08:00Comments on Bold Talk: Is this the right way ?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-63970159699524763802012-09-14T15:08:35.074+08:002012-09-14T15:08:35.074+08:00Every parenting ways are different. I can't im...Every parenting ways are different. I can't imagine how I will handle my kids when they are in their teens. I do hope I will be their friends instead and hope they can talk to me like a friend too. mNhLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884723664598214588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-43417749003667878992012-08-29T17:02:13.807+08:002012-08-29T17:02:13.807+08:00actually control his own daughter in this way is c...actually control his own daughter in this way is consider good.<br /><br />just have to talk nicely all the time, what I think was, lock the phone is too much.<br /><br />yah sometimes 16-17years old can cause very very big trouble . . . (if u read newspaper frequent)Koh Kian Faihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11206635955009490084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-66652843008687060272012-08-17T16:30:06.845+08:002012-08-17T16:30:06.845+08:00I don't really agreed to use the word CONTROL....I don't really agreed to use the word CONTROL. He should educate his daughter telling the consequences awareness of doing this and doing that.. I knew sometimes parents (typical mentality kolot type) are quite hard and shy in opening mouth to talk. It's wrong to control, that will make the daughter feel annoyed and angry Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07148141089834327241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-64421353844768147982012-08-17T12:19:03.677+08:002012-08-17T12:19:03.677+08:00Hmm, I dont think it is a right way. When you are...Hmm, I dont think it is a right way. When you are controlling someone too tight, it is like choking them. I think a little bit of leniency is good. Rose worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02104898697123799249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-82169419814583621672012-08-17T12:05:52.313+08:002012-08-17T12:05:52.313+08:00Lee pull the rubber band really tight, all the rub...Lee pull the rubber band really tight, all the rubber band has it elastic limit. I hope his girl won't jump up high after she graduate.Vickylowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10737697472241770092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-58872579907431230112012-08-16T17:34:29.895+08:002012-08-16T17:34:29.895+08:00I guess we shouldn't control much, instead we ...I guess we shouldn't control much, instead we should communicate more, love more and respect more. I hope I do have wisdom on how to do it best when my girls are at teen. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-57822002041892214562012-08-16T15:27:11.049+08:002012-08-16T15:27:11.049+08:00the poor girl... hmm i guess every parent can get ...the poor girl... hmm i guess every parent can get overprotective sometimes Isaac Tanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10641794163377508188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-35625681220895854182012-08-16T12:48:44.666+08:002012-08-16T12:48:44.666+08:00There is nothing wrong to assure our children alwa...There is nothing wrong to assure our children always in the right path and doing the right things.However i was so perturbed the side effect of over control our kids daily routine due to our adamant thinking. When our kids reach different stage of age, i was thinking should we also play as a different role towards our kids.I also hope that my kids able to stand firm and know their life journey Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-71368894944614605352012-08-16T01:07:10.106+08:002012-08-16T01:07:10.106+08:00What about you? What about you? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-19418125425067933322012-08-15T22:43:26.373+08:002012-08-15T22:43:26.373+08:00I do understand his concern for his young daughter...I do understand his concern for his young daughter. Hopefully she will turn out fine. I knew someone whose parents are watched 24-7 by her parents like a hawk, except for school related activities, she is not allowed to stay back after school, no visiting friend's houses even on school holidays or weekends; she is not allowed to take or make calls, not allowed to go anywhere without an AngeL BeaRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08695359434568121854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-69626700465615153592012-08-15T12:15:03.374+08:002012-08-15T12:15:03.374+08:00I don't even want to start to imagine my troub...I don't even want to start to imagine my troubles and headaches when Chenya grows up....Will leave that to later when the need arises....hahahahaDaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07788745426293821924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-75152628901226249092012-08-15T07:59:22.543+08:002012-08-15T07:59:22.543+08:00Your friend will end up losing her in the long run...Your friend will end up losing her in the long run. We can be strict to some extent, but not until that extent as your friend is doing. There must be a mutual trust. Once they know we trust them, they will value that trust in return they will do their part. What your friend doing is a dangerous thing, she might rebel one day.johnnie limhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00288534127132391855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-40384986074340515112012-08-14T22:50:36.533+08:002012-08-14T22:50:36.533+08:00The dad is too strict. I'm afraid her rebelli...The dad is too strict. I'm afraid her rebellious spirit will arise when she turns 18.sexyjessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09422189276079986488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-87507064932562570752012-08-14T21:54:18.801+08:002012-08-14T21:54:18.801+08:00Reminds me of my younger days, very strict upbring...Reminds me of my younger days, very strict upbringing too!... hahahaa... Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-39459410132501259812012-08-14T20:13:16.368+08:002012-08-14T20:13:16.368+08:00I have an elder sister..
but I am not sure whethe...I have an elder sister.. <br />but I am not sure whether my parents are strict to her..<br />our age gap is big....<br />Simple Personhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06150158479566092556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-8560064791014460682012-08-14T20:10:50.545+08:002012-08-14T20:10:50.545+08:00why le my name is over here...
annay tm you miss m...why le my name is over here...<br />annay tm you miss me too much is it? Simple Personhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06150158479566092556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-86471788802772050072012-08-14T16:11:27.244+08:002012-08-14T16:11:27.244+08:00LOL! Your mother was only strict to your sister an...LOL! Your mother was only strict to your sister and not you, TM?? <br /><br />That's unfair! I demand for gender equality!!yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16500454253801613403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-34299313182995382932012-08-14T16:04:54.648+08:002012-08-14T16:04:54.648+08:00My parents are quite lenient towards us girls. I h...My parents are quite lenient towards us girls. I have 2 younger sisters :)<br /><br />They weren't the control freak type, but they always give us advices and guidelines. Of course, sometimes restrict us from doing something silly and immature. yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16500454253801613403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-45742570486272465682012-08-14T15:36:17.292+08:002012-08-14T15:36:17.292+08:00LOL... This reminds me of my only sister I have. M...LOL... This reminds me of my only sister I have. My mother was so strict to her as she had too many admirers like stray cats and dogs. My sister was so rebellious and freaked out so often but today she thanked my mum for being so strict...only on her! <br /><br /><br /><br />My sister was WILD and TOO HOT! SP's nose will bleed.Twilight Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04574109866770324683noreply@blogger.com