tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post1290105866189624486..comments2023-10-20T18:19:54.924+08:00Comments on Bold Talk: My Gay friend's DilemmaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-73643683473811775532009-11-27T15:16:59.596+08:002009-11-27T15:16:59.596+08:00this is what i always use on myself - "I am w...this is what i always use on myself - "I am who I am - I will NOT be someone that others want me to be to make one party happy or unhappy the next. Hate me or love me for being me, you pick."AngeL BeaRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08695359434568121854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-5808209471663261612009-11-25T22:40:35.068+08:002009-11-25T22:40:35.068+08:00I don't think any of us can advise him because...I don't think any of us can advise him because whether he wants to reveal his true sexual orientation is entirely up to him. <br /><br />If he can take the risk of his family members and friends shutting him out (and it's very possible) then go ahead! In fact, this will the best choice because he'll be free - he no longer need to hide all the time. <br /><br />And possibly, in time foongpchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09592884550810521137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-15499380319677154692009-11-24T13:11:15.954+08:002009-11-24T13:11:15.954+08:00I have always thought gay men to be passionate, lo...I have always thought gay men to be passionate, loving and caring and thus easily hurt. Does Sam want to let his family know in the first place? If not, he doesn't have to. I always believe what one does with ones life is nobody else's business. <br /><br />It must be hard for Sam breaking up after five long years. My heart goes out to him. Good that he has a good friend in you, HappySurferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01444290549991093661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-75966046697319699172009-11-24T10:11:40.340+08:002009-11-24T10:11:40.340+08:00I wanted to leave a comment yesterday.. but didn&#...I wanted to leave a comment yesterday.. but didn't manage to coz my little girl was making lots of noise.. <br /><br />I am here to just pat the shoulder of Sam, and I don't mind to have him as a friend, since I have quite a number of gay friends.. to me, they are who they are, as long as he is kind and nice, why do we bother on gay or not..<br /><br />My baby has got 2 gay 'god-daddyCynful Pleasurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03878087629964228607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-50328481930172103162009-11-24T09:52:39.537+08:002009-11-24T09:52:39.537+08:00oh sam, what a waste. if i were a friend of sam, i...oh sam, what a waste. if i were a friend of sam, i'll try to turn him back into straight.jennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-1778964208648093522009-11-24T07:44:32.647+08:002009-11-24T07:44:32.647+08:00*stay
Zzz*stay<br /><br />ZzzDonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17048765167034045774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-82372229849718109032009-11-24T07:43:48.691+08:002009-11-24T07:43:48.691+08:00erm... of coz it would be so much easier to say &q...erm... of coz it would be so much easier to say "just be yourself, don't care what others say", but it's reaaaaaaaally hard~ unless your Sam has a very strong stand of his own, full of confident type and REALLY don't care how other see him.. <br />else better star low loh, coz no need to share your privacy life with the whole world also right?Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17048765167034045774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-88672203017809441462009-11-24T00:02:34.933+08:002009-11-24T00:02:34.933+08:00Hi Eugene, could you please ask Sam to stop by my ...Hi Eugene, could you please ask Sam to stop by my blog. I have a few gay friends who are bloggers on my blog list...so, indirectly I hope I can help and also, I have written a few articles on gays. <br />http://justmeshakira.blogspot.com/2009/11/kingdom-in-closet-part-one.html<br /><br />http://justmeshakira.blogspot.com/2009/11/kingdom-in-closet-part-two.html<br /><br />http://Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10264352891639027269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-80054847947264838492009-11-23T23:50:14.891+08:002009-11-23T23:50:14.891+08:00just show the truth of myself...
no point to hide...just show the truth of myself...<br /><br />no point to hide it if your true character is like that...<br /><br />- BRAVE -CH Voonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18167896831738000503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-18059638888041213922009-11-23T21:21:25.746+08:002009-11-23T21:21:25.746+08:00Society (here especially) still do not accept homo...Society (here especially) still do not accept homogenic relationships. <br /><br />"If a man loves a man, it's wrong because God has made a woman for a man." - so they say.<br /><br />We are all humans. We are all children of God. So why discriminate? Gays or lesbians have every right to live the way they choose to but it's just too bad that in this country, they will find it Kevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17389773199819970714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-72437862687135017802009-11-23T20:46:13.248+08:002009-11-23T20:46:13.248+08:00I just dunno wut to say, yes we dun need any permi...I just dunno wut to say, yes we dun need any permission to live our life the way we want.. well, just find the best in ourselves.. :)Kris and Nadiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00052837691897718899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-42117894241461079332009-11-23T19:44:22.443+08:002009-11-23T19:44:22.443+08:00Life is life- learning to accept your self, is a h...Life is life- learning to accept your self, is a hard task to do. but somehow if you have the courage and confident in making it possible, you dont need to be afraid. for you are the one who lived your life, not the people behind you, if you will make this decision to reveal your self. since you said that you have the great thing to show up to the world, who cares, that is your life and you are Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01655103022836640263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-45965219780620450782009-11-23T18:34:33.135+08:002009-11-23T18:34:33.135+08:00Life is all about choices I believe, and one will ...Life is all about choices I believe, and one will have to bear and cope with the choices made, just like what STP shared. :D all the best to your friend.Gabrielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05357739423871676894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-41341307239374291242009-11-23T18:02:05.068+08:002009-11-23T18:02:05.068+08:00It is usually better to come out and be honest wit...It is usually better to come out and be honest with people... <br /><br />but in a place where we are... it might be harder because of the difference view of the the people here. So it be harder somehow...ladyviralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13492604818640606312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-66998832953496679222009-11-23T17:52:06.583+08:002009-11-23T17:52:06.583+08:00It is really hard to advise him, except to let him...It is really hard to advise him, except to let him know that you're behind him 100%, whether he choose to remain closeted. Despite so many rants from those who are out who practically insist that others follow suit, it is really upto each individual's lifestyle and situation in deciding what's best to do. Sometimes, what people dun know, wldn't hurt then. <br /><br />Neways, what&Gratitudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15380730586120593527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-66112791081696128892009-11-23T14:27:31.287+08:002009-11-23T14:27:31.287+08:00i read a few gay bloggers here before and i feel f...i read a few gay bloggers here before and i feel for them.. most have not disclosed their dilemma except to their own blogs.. <br />being a gay or a lesbian, as stp said, it is their own choices..Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-49103189458585736572009-11-23T14:22:22.686+08:002009-11-23T14:22:22.686+08:00It is hard to answer your question eugene...It is hard to answer your question eugene...amycheahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16498278432236066900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-38275508986684455702009-11-23T14:13:21.579+08:002009-11-23T14:13:21.579+08:00I can never fit into his shoes nor will I ever kno...I can never fit into his shoes nor will I ever know what its like to struggle and to go through what he's going through. Surely I would not discriminate and certainly I want him to have a better life. Being in the dark certainly didnt help much, and to come out from the shell needed a great strength of courage. You have made your choice in life and you need to carry the weight of it, or else FBS Headmasterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12424039075115996844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-78866599719461887512009-11-23T13:46:45.512+08:002009-11-23T13:46:45.512+08:00gay men are so out, they are in now!!! hahahaha......gay men are so out, they are in now!!! hahahaha.....i am sure society's perception of them will change slowly....they are highly capable peoplemanglishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01899916282439066116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-40140155560787747662009-11-23T13:05:37.807+08:002009-11-23T13:05:37.807+08:00not much comments but with this discriminative cli...not much comments but with this discriminative climate at this part of world, it's better for him to adapt to be straight.ChrisAuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14077277168519458783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-74165715197053733042009-11-23T10:43:23.813+08:002009-11-23T10:43:23.813+08:00If I were him...I will go straight. ha :D easily s...If I were him...I will go straight. ha :D easily said than done right? But if I kept on being gay..it is really hard for me... :DTekkaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12433320698714867028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478579008798883580.post-46064109127942862602009-11-23T10:00:03.467+08:002009-11-23T10:00:03.467+08:00I am who I am, you are who you are...I am not in t...I am who I am, you are who you are...I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not here to live up to mine! I think everyone's life is one's own to live it the way one chooses - nobody should force anybody into anything, not even parents...and good or bad, they will subsequently have to live with their choices - nobody else is to blame.suituapuinoreply@blogger.com